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You deserve to feel alive, desired, and deeply at home in your body—let’s get you there.

My one-on-one high-level intimacy mentorship is where you stop performing and start truly feeling—pleasure, confidence, and unapologetic authenticity.

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HOW AM I QUALIFIED TO HELP?

A little of my story...

I know where you are, because I’ve been there too. Stuck between wanting deep connection and being terrified to be truly seen. My journey through shame, recovery, and self-reclamation led me to this work. Today, I help individuals and couples heal, communicate, and experience intimacy rooted in authenticity, safety, and desire.

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WHAT I OFFER

1:1 High Level Mentorship

This is your personal deep dive 1:1 support that meets you where you are and calls you into who you’re meant to become. We’ll strip away the noise, unlock your truth, and build a life and love rooted in integrity, pleasure, and power.

Group Coaching & Workshops

Join a community of brave souls doing the work with you. Together we explore intimacy, confidence, and authenticity in a safe, playful, and transformational space where breakthroughs feel as powerful as they are joyful.

Self-Paced Online Courses 

Explore my library of on-demand courses covering everything from heartbreak healing, to the art of pleasure, to an A–Z guide on sexual intimacy. Helping you feel confident, connected, and fully alive in your body and relationships.

1:1 HIGH LEVEL MENTORSHIP

Empowered Embodiment

A private virtual journey for singles and couples ready to master love, intimacy, and self-expression at the highest level. Through personalized coaching, embodiment practices, and soulful strategy, you’ll break old patterns, reconnect to your truth, and step into your most authentic, fulfilled self. Available as a single session, 6-week, or 12-week mentorship.

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GROUP COACHING & WORKSHOPS

Transformational Group Experiences

My group coaching programs vary throughout the year — you can find current offerings on my Instagram (@iamjocelynsilva). Workshops are available for hire both virtually and in person (when I’m in your city), bringing grounded education and embodied transformation to your group or event.

SELF-PACED ONLINE COURSES

Expansive Digital Experiences 

Learn at your own rhythm through my library of on-demand courses covering everything from heartbreak healing, to pleasure “how-to’s,” to a full A–Z guide on sexual intimacy. Each course blends education, embodiment, and real-world tools to help you create more confidence, connection, and fulfillment in every area of your intimate life. Browse the current collection and dive into whichever course speaks to your next chapter.

real results

FROM MY CLIENTS

I am having so much GREAT SEX now!

Wow! I just completed Jocelyn’s 12-week program and I am so grateful for this journey. I have learned so much about self-love, communication and have connected with my body. I have regained so much confidence in myself. Before Jocelyn’s program, I was struggling with letting go and was having a hard time enjoying sex and intimacy with a new person in my life. I was self-conscious and doubted myself a lot. ( I was also 5 months out of a relationship with my ex, who I was with for 12 years, and our sex life was non-existent) I love working with Jocelyn because she pushes you and keeps it real. She doesn’t judge and is determined to get you to love yourself first. She guides you and provides you with a safe place to open up. I also love that I can identify with her so much because we’re both curly hair Latina women. It is great to open up to someone who understands the culture and upbringing, especially being Chicana. I am having so much GREAT SEX now, and have learned that I am way worth more than I imagined. Working with Jocelyn has been an amazing experience that I will cherish, it is the best investment I made for myself!

– SUZY

I am so in awe of how far I've come
When Jocelyn told me I would see the effects of this program ripple into my whole life, I heard her, but I didn't truly believe her. Here I am now, after our 12 weeks together, and I am so in awe of how far I've come! This program turned a mirror to myself in a way I never could have done alone. Jocelyn noticed the patterns in my life, and encouraged me to find my voice, set boundaries, and get specific about what I want out of life and relationships. I started the program while dating someone, and ultimately ended it alone because I found my worth, and fell in love with myself and my body more than ever, and more than any outside person had ever given me. I cannot wait to step into the dating world as my authentic self, who is more empowered than ever! Thank you Jocelyn!
 

– CHRISTIE

Working with Jocelyn was heaven sent
Working with Jocelyn was heaven sent, the I don't even recognize the person I was when I started, at first I we were both worried maybe 12 weeks wouldn't be enough but in just 12 weeks I went from a little hermit crab to a queen. I was in very unhealthy situations, I would question my worth and if I was even deserving of love. It's interesting how the universe works. So many changes happened in my life while working with Jocelyn, where boundaries and facing my true self and giving myself what I deserve had to come into action. I would call Jocelyn crying because it was all so much for me to handle and process and she would guide me step by step on how to work with everything and sit with it until I made the final decision, my confidence and learning what I deserved completely sky rocketed and I could not be more than grateful for someone like Jocelyn to have worked with me.
 

– JAZMINE

I cannot rave about this program or about Jocelyn enough
I am so unbelievably grateful for Jocelyn and the program she created. This program helped me pinpoint exactly what was holding me back in my sex life and work through it to make sex fun again for me. It’s amazing how much of what was affecting my sex life had nothing to do with sex. Jocelyn gave me an ear to listen, a shoulder to cry on, and a friend to laugh with. There were parts that were so difficult and times where I felt like giving up but I’m so glad that I didn’t. Because those moments were the ones that were the most significant. When I felt like that, my body was trying to hide the pain and vulnerability that would be brought to the surface. But she always encouraged me to keep going. And that always led to breakthroughs. She is so respectful of boundaries and works with you on how to establish them with her in the beginning of the program. I cannot rave about this program or about Jocelyn enough. If anybody is considering taking the first step and reaching out, they should 100% do it.
 

– DEBORAH

It is by far the best investment I’ve made in myself
Never imagined that sex coaching was a form of therapy. Here I thought I was taking a shortcut in dealing with some childhood trauma that I hadn’t processed but instead found myself facing it head on. Jocelyn provided an environment that felt safe, free of judgment and full of positive energy where I felt free to truly express myself from the heart, something I’ve struggled to do my whole life. My favorite thing was that she pushed me to do things out of my comfort zone that I would have never done on my own that helped me gain knowledge and confidence in myself. From my first encounter with her, as hard as my sessions were at the beginning, I could feel a change in me. With her knowledge and guidance, I noticed I was more present, I would catch myself if I was in my head and not enjoying the moment, I became more vocal about the things that I enjoyed in the bedroom, and I started to speak up more about my feelings. All of these have been game changers in my life! Thank you, Jocelyn, for being a light in my life and providing me with the tools to move forward in my healing and sexual journey. It is by far the best investment I’ve made in myself.
 

– ALEXIS

I look in the mirror to a new and vibrant version of myself
Ahhh I'm going to start from the beginning. I was scrolling through Tik Tok and I came across Jocelyn's content. It was one of the breathe work clips. It stuck with me. I didn't think much of it and kept scrolling. The next day I came across her page again. I definitely felt the universe bringing us together in someway. I was SOOOO nervous because I've struggled my entire adult life with the idea of sex and pleasure. I stepped out of my comfort zone and 12 weeks later IM SO FREAKING THANKFUL I DID. Going into this I thought we were going to get right into sex, pleasure and all the stuff I didn't learn in sex ed. But we didn't. WE DID SO MUCH MORE. Jocelyn took 10 steps back and focused on the foundation of ME. Being kinder to myself and loving myself. She helped me dig deep into my life and work through the trauma I had with sex. It was painful and I had a ton of tears. Worth it? 100%. She was there for me when I felt like no one else was and she was equally there for me on the amazing days too. She truly became like family to me. She helped me conquer many fears (even with fire! - yes you read that right) Today I can honestly say I feel vibrant and hyped on life daily. I feel centered and confident. I feel in touch with myself and I've made stronger relationships with people in my life. I even put myself out there and starting dating and exploring. A year ago I would have been too shy and focused on the wrong things when it came to dating, but today I have my head on straight, I feel confident, and have excited nerves. I look in the mirror to a new and vibrant version of myself. I'm so so so so incredibly thankful to have gone on this journey with Jocelyn.
 

– JAIME

I am starting to love my body no matter what it looks like
This program really helped me with my confidence. I started out hating my body and being ashamed, but I quickly learned that most people do not care. After that it was super easy, and I am starting to love my body no matter what it looks like.
 

– CRISTINA B. 

Jocelyn is such an amazing coach & friend
I was in shock to had found Jocelyn & I’m so thankful & grateful that I did. I was so lost and confused before I had met her. I had absolutely no confidence I myself whatsoever, I was afraid to open up to my partner, I was afraid to try new things. After my first session & homework assignments, I have learned do be more open & confident. I’ve recently finished my sessions but wish I could continue because Jocelyn is such an amazing coach & friend. No matter what my issue was, she never judged & always found a way to help me. It feels amazing to have the confidence I have now, that I never had before. It makes such a difference.
 

– JORDAN

It has improved my relationship immensely!
I've been in a long term relationship for four and a half years, and sex has always been a source of conflict for me and my partner. I've had some tough experiences with men and dating in the past that left me with a lot of negative associations with sex (i.e.- men use sex to manipulate women, sex is more about men's pleasure than it is about women's, etc.). I've been looking for a long time for a way to unpack my experiences and get into a healthier headspace about sex. Jocelyn was absolutely incredible at giving me practical tools to help me clarify my own sexual wants and needs and communicate them with my partner. I so enjoyed Jocelyn's process of discovering and setting sexual boundaries. It gives you permission to explore all of the things you enjoy or are interested in trying, without pressuring you into scenarios that don't spark your excitement. Having the clarity to be able to describe to your partner exactly what you like and what you want is so empowering! It has improved my relationship immensely!
 

– PETRA

Highly recommend you sign up with Jocelyn!!
Great program. Jocelyn was wise, patient, and kind and we covered so much from sexual self-confidence to relationship tips and I feel I came out meeting my goals and surprising myself with the progress I made in a short amount of time. Highly recommend you sign up with Jocelyn!!
 

– LOGAN

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